“Here is what to do to get better, more effective results with EFT on your own when you are new to it…”

“While helping a client to meet and communicate with their own Personality Parts can be successfully done through talk therapy alone, I find that adding EFT to this approach significantly enhances and speeds up the process of alignment and internal peace-making.”

“We imagined stepping into another room where we could speak with mom and ask her how she was feeling. Through Kari interacting with her mom in the matrix, we found that she was frustrated, angry, and overwhelmed.”

“When I work with someone, I don’t need to be the smartest person in the room; I only need to be the most attentive person in the room. Doing EFT as a practitioner is not about having vast knowledge of what can be wrong with human beings, and how to fix them all. It is about practicing (and modeling) the focus and attention necessary to help a person find her way…”

“For me, this session represents the depth of inner wisdom each of us carries. It also reveals the profound emotional healing we can consistently experience during a fully explored EFT session, especially one that includes creative use of inner visualizations.”

“Each word carries an emotional intensity that differs in each culture. The same word spoken by an enemy will have different intensity than when spoken by a friend. Certain words like forgiveness, acceptance, love, abundance, co-dependence etc carry a different intensity in each language.”

“We uncovered the real cause of the fear after only two sessions. It was a surprise to me, and to M as well.”

“In EFT, we are always on the lookout for core issues, but sometimes a core issue is so big, it’s like we’re standing too close to a large painting. Tapping through the questions in the way we did was a like a slow stepping back. With each step the whole story was allowed to come into greater focus…”

“Melanie wrote: ‘I always tried hard to get them emotionally involved anyway, but it never worked, and I only got hurt. Stepping out of this pattern feels so good.’”

“To be clear about this: I’m not arguing that there is no place in EFT for the positive, that it’s all doom and gloom. Quite the contrary, there is an excellent place for the positive – it’s after the negative has been resolved and there is room for it to go in without opposition.”