“I’m not ok, you are ok can happen if as a child the person has been subjected to constant reprimands, rejection, unnecessary punishment and blaming by parents. He may not have felt loved and did things to get the love and approval from his parents…”

“Now the children are all familiar with tapping so that if she needs to calm a child, she can guide them by saying, ‘Let’s tap again to get rid of that anger so you can have a peaceful day.’”

“Events are highly charged, one time experiences that change a person’s energy system forever. We are most familiar with trauma, but there are two other significant types of events…”

“In our experience, the ‘flash in the pan’ success that some see with EFT is a wonderful starting point. However, huge sustained success for most EFTers is best fostered by taking a step-by-step approach.”

“I believe we can use EFT to entertain and explore the frontiers of who we really are. For serious students of EFT, I recommend exploring the reaches of human consciousness, using EFT to release emotional as well as spiritual blocks, and to open to who and what you are in the deepest sense of being using the terminology, inspiration and teachings that resonate with you.”

“Being highly sensitive has its blessings and its drawbacks, sometimes both, simultaneously. Much of my work has been about how to use EFT to heal the wounds of the sensitive nature so that we are empowered to use our gifts in the service of ourselves, our families, our communities and the world itself.”

“Recently, I saw a man who had been suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder or SAD as the fascinating acronym may be, and it turned out that the reason he got sad every October was nothing to do with our planet turning merrily through its seasons, as it does, but in fact with a severe trauma that had happened to him as a teenager and the date it happened was October 11th. That was the day when ‘the lights went out.’”

“After a few sessions it became clear that something was interfering with what I would expect to be normal progress. Something was ‘off’ and it soon became clear it was the influence of the drug.”

“The most amazing conversation to come out of all of this, which really made me look at myself, was the issue that she had to suffer in order to understand what others were going through in order to heal them…”

“As Sue’s emotions shifted from anger to hurt to nervousness to guilt and finally to warmth so did the way she talked about her sister. The words she used changed; the things she noticed and remembered came with more detail, her whole perception of this woman she had known all her life was no longer narrowly focused.”