Immediately following my session with her, I noticed that MY deep body-level, crazy-making grief, exhaustion and sadness that had been there previously was no longer the same.

“At one point, when talking about what the announcement of the divorce had provoked in my mind at the time, I instantly said: “The feeling that it would never be the same ever again”, and tears started flowing. We had to stop tapping. All day long, every time I would think of this key sentence, tears would roll down my checks.”

A long time ago I learned to be silent (or at least gracious!), in the face of insult or unfairness. Apparently this was thought to be good manners, and also had the added effect of not escalating an already unpleasant situation. In hindsight, it was not such a good lesson to learn…

“We tapped through the points with the new possibility that both of them wanted the exact same thing- to be closer and to love one another- but were coming at it very differently. As men and women often do! “

“Where there is fear, there is no love… and there certainly isn’t any faith. I recognized this as some of the ‘the writing on my walls’ regarding lack of abundance.”

“Virginia wanted to work on her fear of totally loving and receiving unconditional love. She had difficulty really opening to loving herself and felt embarrassment around her emotions. She noticed a pattern of “checking out” in interpersonal relationships because she got afraid of being consumed.”

“Melanie wrote: ‘I always tried hard to get them emotionally involved anyway, but it never worked, and I only got hurt. Stepping out of this pattern feels so good.’”

“The aftermath of a break-up often involves tremendous emotional distress. There may be deep hurt and anger, resentment, feelings of betrayal, bitterness, grief and sadness. For the person who broke off the relationship, there can be terrible guilt and self-doubt. These feelings can be incapacitating in their intensity at first. Even years later they may lie right under the surface, unresolved.”

“This session cleared up a lot of confusion for Tanya especially during her “Aha” moment… The session really helped her to see how old beliefs were getting in the way of her desire to have a committed love relationship.”

“She felt anger towards herself for wanting to go back to him. Guilt, shame, annoyance, frustration, anger and a sense of betrayal, were the predominating emotions…”